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Sarah Raad's avatar

I’ll be your friend for ever, we do know WAY too much about each other grasshopper ❤️

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Claire Venus ✨'s avatar

LOL - lucky us!!!

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Mary Beth Kaplan🪶's avatar

Here to do better as a human and as a woman. These kinds of things are really important to converse about. Thanks for hosting a chat about it.💛

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Sarah Raad's avatar

So important to have to conversation and be open to why we have the feelings we do and how to deal with them 🌸

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Claire Venus ✨'s avatar

Yes totally. Thank you for witnessing it. It’s beautiful to have spoken with so many wonderful women in this space. ✨🩷✨

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Alice Wild's avatar

Thank you for talking about this. We need to do better. We need to rally around our fellow women. We need to rise up, encourage and support each other. When one woman succeeds, we all succeed. Believing this platform is solely for small voices for women, caps us. It’s oppression cloaked in a message of anti-metrics. And woman feel it the hardest.

I wrote a post about it that went out yesterday—before I saw Glennon leave. I wish things would have been different. We need to change things. We need to lift each other up with a force wrapped in compassion, kindness and love.

I don’t usually share posts within comments but this is something I can’t stay silent about and something we need to change here. I’ve only been here since the beginning of March so I’m new and I’m shocked. But I’ve been here enough where I’ve connected with so many women. It has changed my life and I believe in the community here. We’re smart and we can change. We need to change. 🫶

Here’s the post: Dear Women of Substack—Please Hear My Cry, I Will Not Be Silenced and Nor Should You. Let’s spread this message of love and light for our fellow women:

https://open.substack.com/pub/alicewild/p/dear-women-of-substackplease-hear?r=3kka1l&utm_medium=ios

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Claire Venus ✨'s avatar

We do. Thank you for sharing your heart Alice. I do believe there is alchemy in the aftermath as painful as it is. ✨💞✨

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Alice Wild's avatar

Thank you so much for sharing that message of hope, Claire. I’m feeling down about today but I think I’ll spend some time recalibrating—as we all need to do sometimes ❤️—and keep going with hope for what we’re doing here.

Thank you again for being such a kind, supportive and encouraging light for us all. ✨❤️

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Sarah Raad's avatar

Thank you for witnessing and thinking about the topic Alice! 🌸❤️

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Rebecca Goodall's avatar

Thank you both for this. I was in such a rage I couldn’t see straight but hearing it sussed out helped me sort my feelings. Also realizing that I’ve been keeping myself small for fear of not being the cool poor writer. Gonna take steps to change that now. Big hugs and loves to both of you for showing up for the sisterhood!!!

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Sarah Raad's avatar

Ah that’s such a gorgeous thing to read! I hope you drop playing small and start to play BIG! X

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Claire Venus ✨'s avatar

Aw thank you Rebecca - it all reminded me of something I had to deal with on here when I first started sparkle from other women - it was half resolved but it really lit a fire in me. It's all been so hard to process.

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Claire Diaz-Ortiz's avatar

This is a great discussion and thanks for mentioning the business model and how things have to change.

There is a clear misunderstanding of where we are (a social network) and what needs to happen to keep a network alive (add new names to bring new users).

Networks die without new inputs, and the stage of this network is the big name phase. We have worked out way up from where it was many years ago when most writers here were not well known.

Change is change. I’m not saying it’s hard but it’s very predictable.

More on that here:

https://clairediazortiz.substack.com/p/to-fuel-the-feast-the-rise-of-influencer

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Claire Venus ✨'s avatar

Sorry I missed this! Loved your article. Gosh it’s all just such a lot. I have a lot of thinking to do. 💕

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Amber Horrox's avatar

“Let’s be kind and create”💖💖💖💖💖💖💖

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Claire Venus ✨'s avatar

I’m all in! 💖

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Amber Horrox's avatar

Loved all of this💖 connecting to my female lineage about being the first woman to be doing the work I’m doing, living a life of independence and choice has been really healing. Thank you for that gift🎁💐

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Claire Venus ✨'s avatar

✨🩷🥰 thank you for always being here. Such a tough week for so many female voices on SS. ✨

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Georgia Clare's avatar

Thank you so much for this Claire and ~Sarah. xx

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Sarah Raad's avatar

Thanks for watching Georgia!

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Sam Galloway (she/her) 💕's avatar

Oh this was so lovely and mature! 😊

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Claire Venus ✨'s avatar

We just had to.

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Abbey Wade's avatar

Thank you both for showing up with such open kindness. Love to you❤️

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Claire Venus ✨'s avatar

Thanks for writing your beautiful piece. I hope lots of gorgeous people find you and your work Abbey! ✨✨✨💞

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Sarah Raad's avatar

Abbey is such a great writer, I’m so excited to have found her!

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Abbey Wade's avatar

Aww❤️❤️❤️ thank you. And now I've found you! Subscribing now so I know where you find you again ;-) We need more of this togetherness x

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Claire Venus ✨'s avatar

so much more togetherness.

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